By Bob Fraser
(Acting Magazine Contributor, Author/Distributor
of YouMustActCD Rom Technology)
Find more info on this author at
www.YouMustAct.com
Here are 11 bottom
line (absolutely necessary) habitual behaviors that
every "pro" actor must possess.
YOU MUST BE ON
TIME
If you can't get
anywhere on time now, you'd better learn how before you
attempt the “real world” of an acting career.
On a big film the
money is going out the door at about 50 grand every 20
minutes. On a network TV show the rate is only slightly
less. If you are an actor who is ten minutes late for a
job that pays five hundred bucks – you will be heartily
disliked by the producer and everybody that works for
the producer. People will scream at you. If you are
late for an audition, the casting director will worry
that you won't get to the job on time.
Because the
reality is this: if you're late for a job, that casting
director will also have people screaming at
her. Understand? NEVER BE LATE.
YOU MUST BE
ABLE TO WORK A LONG DAY
There is no such
thing as an eight-hour day in an acting career. In
forty years, I've had about 23 eight-hour days. And two
of those were because somebody died. If you cannot work
a long day, you are unsuited for success as an actor in
professional show business. IT'S LO-O-NG HOURS.
YOU MUST BE AN
EARLY RISER
I know it's nice
to laze around in bed when you've got a day off, but
this is a habit no actor can afford. Grasp the idea
that if you want to be in the movie or television
business, you must be the kind of person who can get up
at five in the morning. All the time. Period. If you
work in the theatre, your early rising will fall about
10 AM – because you work into the night. But if you
plan on working in “the industry” or "the business,"
you'd do well to make early rising a life-long habit.
WAKE UP THE ROOSTER.
YOU MUST BE A
PLEASANT PERSON UNDER THESE CIRCUMSTANCES
Early starts and
long hours mean that you will be spending (on average)
about half your life with co-workers. If you are a pain
in the a@# – you will be heartily disliked by other
people who are also working 12 hour days. Word will
get around. It will be harder to get work. BE NICE.
YOU MUST LOVE THE
WORK
You have to keep
your “creative juices” flowing during the entire 12
hours. If you don't love acting, being 'on' for 12
hours is impossible. Don't forget why you are doing
this. LOVE.
YOU MUST BE
WELL-GROOMED AND CLEAN
You are not the
part. Even the guys who play bikers and bums wear
deodorant. The teeth are clean. The breath is
pleasant. Etc. I know this seems nit-picky, but a
co-worker who literally “stinks” will get a reputation
and lose opportunities because of it. I've seen it
happen. And when it comes to casting agents, who see
hundreds of actors in a week – well, odors are their
number one pet peeve – and heavy perfume or cologne both
fall into this category. CLEANLINESS IS IMPORTANT.
YOU MUST NOT
COMPLAIN (WITH ONE PROVISO)
Those actors on
sets who complain about the dressing rooms, the food,
the director, the co-star, the costume people, the
hours, the script, or pretty much anything to do with
the production – are labeled as "complainers" or a@#h*%s
– and they are rarely appreciated or tolerated for very
long.
Actors near the
bottom of the ladder who think it's “smart” to gripe
about every little screw-up, are putting a bulls-eye on
their butts. Don't become one of those actors or you
will find yourself near the bottom of the ladder for a
long, long time.
Nobody reaches out
to complainers. Nobody, including you, even likes
complainers. Besides, complaining about circumstances
doesn't work. If you want to be thought of as someone
NICE –
DON'T COMPLAIN.
(The proviso to
this is that you must never let anyone abuse or berate
you – in those cases, complain to the authorities –
loudly and often).
YOU MUST NOT
SPREAD RUMORS
Rumor-mongering is
the first sign of someone who isn't really interested in
the job at hand – someone so bored or so shallow that
they must talk about other people, instead of
concentrating on the acting job at hand. When you hear
someone say, "Oh, I worked with (fill in the name of a
movie star), he's a pig." – excuse yourself and go
somewhere else. You do not want to be around this
sort of person. 93.3 percent of all rumors are false.
The other 6.7% are probably none of your business.
Again, actors who
are rumor-mongers are labeled and eventually work dries
up. Talk business, talk philosophy, talk about the
weather – but avoid the temptation to talk about other
people (except in the most glowing terms).
Watch the stars
when they are asked about other performers. Have you
ever heard a star say, "She's an idiot." No, they are
always upbeat, positive, complimentary – because they
know the rumor mill is a two way street. If avoiding
this sort of thing is good behavior for stars (and most
behave this way) then what's stopping you from adopting
the same habit?
NO RUMORS.
DRUGS,
DRINKING, AND SCREWING AROUND
I'm sure you know
what people think of people who are more interested in
sin than cinema. You will be labeled. People will not
forget. Work will be harder to get. JUST SAY "NO
THANK YOU."
JEALOUSY AND
BAD FEELINGS
Jealousy is one of
the main causes of actors "messing up" on one of these
crucial behaviors listed above. Jealousy leads to bad
decisions. Bad decisions lead to bad results. And
jealousy allows you to blame others for your
results. You will begin to believe that things aren't
fair. You will begin to look for “reasons” for your
lack of progress. They will, no doubt, be well argued
reasons – but an excuse by any other name... is still an
excuse.
Jealousy is a bad
path – it's a step on the wrong ladder– you're on the
wrong street – you're a stranger in a strange land –
GET A MAP.
The same goes for
other "negative" emotional reactions. Self blame.
Frustration. Fear. Anxiety. Worry.
This is business.
"There's no crying in baseball."
Besides, wallowing
in your emotional reaction slows down your forward
progress toward your acting success.
GIVE GOOD VALUE
FOR THE DOLLAR
When you
habitually give 110% of your energy to your
acting work
– you will get more
acting
work.
It's a mortal
lock.
By Bob Fraser
(Acting Magazine Contributor, Author/Distributor
of YouMustActCD Rom Technology)
Find more info on this author at
www.YouMustAct.com